What has alcohol done for you lately?
Has it helped you reach that physique or performance goal you’ve been falling short of?
Has it brought you together with people that are going to enrich your life and enhance your success in a meaningful way?
Has it put money into your bank account?
Has it helped you make better decisions?
Has alcohol given you more energy?
No. It hasn’t.
Here are just a few things alcohol has done for you:
–Decreased your testosterone levels and raised your estrogen levels
–Shrunk your brain (seriously!)

–Depleted your bank account
–Made your conversations meaningless (not remembered/pointless/superficial/one-sided)
–Reduced your overall energy and health, and therefore your ability to get things done
Look, you’re either going to read this, realize the truth and then take drastic action, or you’ll convince yourself change is not necessary and go on in mediocrity. If you want to lift and consistently win, you should stop drinking completely.
“I need to drink at work happy hours.”
“I need to drink to talk to women.”
“I need to drink because (FILL IN THE BLANK).”
No. You don’t.
If you believe you do, your fundamental problem is lack of confidence and/or anxiety and it’s time for you to deal with it. Order a soda water and if anyone actually hassles you about it, here is your response:
“I stopped drinking because I have too much to accomplish in 2016 and I can’t have anything holding me back.”
If the woman you’re talking to doesn’t respect that statement, she is probably not worthy of your attention. Move on. Same thing for work colleagues, etc. In reality, nobody will hassle you and most will actually admire you.
Look at the big picture and decide which you would rather have- a fleeting buzz with all its costs, OR more time, money, energy, focus, ambition, clarity and testosterone to get goals accomplished and set yourself up for MASSIVE WINS?
I never had a drinking problem according to anyone- just the typical partying ranging from once per week to once every three weeks, with occasional stretches of abstinence as I periodically grasped what a drain alcohol is on one’s power. Despite the fact that I wasn’t a heavy drinker by cultural standards, I regret not completely abandoning alcohol sooner. I would have accomplished much more by now. Even one day of heavy drinking on occasion creates a massive negative ripple effect. I got sick of throwing away gains I had worked hard for in the gym, sick of dragging ass on Mondays at work, and sick of all the other forms of weakness that drinking brings.
I could easily list 100+ benefits that I have realized from not drinking, but I’m not going to. If you want elite wins, an elite mind, an elite body, and an elite life bad enough, you’ll take the leap and find out what these benefits are for yourself. I don’t remember most of what was supposedly so great about the nights I spent drinking before I gave it up. I do remember my accomplishments, all of which were achieved when sober, and each of them gives me a buzz whenever I think of them. That’s the kind of buzz I want more of- the natural high of a MASSIVE WIN.
As you ponder this post and it perhaps pushes you outside your soft little comfort zone, you might find yourself thinking something like:
“Hey, you know what- forget about this lame idea of not drinking. A guy needs to let loose sometimes. After all, everybody drinks!”
That’s who you want to be like, right- everybody else?